Today was the most unusual Valentine's Day I have and probably ever will spend. Paul and I attended the funeral of a good friend who died too soon. It's sad to see someone go who seems to have so much more of life to live for. From the sound of the talks, he ended at peace with the early departure. A poem on the back of the program gives good advice on how to look at it I thought.
You can shed tears that he is gone,
Or you can smile because he lived,
You can close your eyes and pray
that he will come back,
Or you can open your eyes
and see all that he has left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see him
Or you can be full of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow
and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow
because of yesterday.
You can remember him and only that he is gone
Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind
be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what he would want:
Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
David Harkins 1959
Though it wasn't your usual Valentine's Day, it was a day overflowing with love of family and friends, a day filled with the hope of the continuation of that love for times past these because of Heavenly Father's plan of happiness. I'm going to call it a very good Valentine's Day...one I can remember and learn from. I hope his family will be able to smile, open their eyes, love and go on.